“I help clients to re-create from their imagination the safety
of the therapy room in the form of a place which they can
mentally ‘visit’ to recapture a sense of themselves and feel
at peace.
“I recently worked with a young woman who was
subjected to Juju trafficking to ‘build’ an imaginary garden.
She chose her favourite flowers, a carved, wooden bench,
birds, a goldfish pond with water lilies – most of one
session was spent building the garden so that when she
tries to sleep she remembers to go into her garden. She
still suffers from nightmares and disrupted sleep but she
says that this garden helps her when she lays her head on
the pillow.”
Helen Bamber
8.3 Focusing on the “Here and Now”
HBF works with victims of trafficking who have been traumatized by past experiences but are also debilitated by uncertain futures. This is particularly the case for those who
have reason to fear being detained or forcibly returned to
their country of origin. However, it also applies to those
who have been given legal protection status in the UK and
those who do not require it.
Concerns about the future may relate to physical and psychological illnesses; problems of poverty, poor housing/
destitution and low socio-economic status; the continuing
threat of traffickers and vulnerability to, or acquiescence in,
harmful relationships. In many cases, victims of trafficking
feel overwhelmed by the difficulties of language, culture
and bureaucracy of the country that they are now living in.
In therapy, clients are helped to obtain a conscious level of
control over their own lives by focusing upon the immediate present, or “here and now”. Concerns they raise about
their past and/or future may be confronted and explored,
but clinicians may also ask questions and make connections
to positive thoughts and small actions that belong in the
current moment of clients’ lives and which can help them
to make progress. This technique enables clients to build
autonomy within their lives, introducing it in “small steps”
which they can manage. Problem solving, even on a small
scale, (for example filling out a form or making a necessary
telephone call) becomes progressive over time and gradually builds confidence.
ited by the fear of becoming emotionally overwhelmed or
re-traumatized. HBF also provides a programme of practical, creative skills, and activities in group work which can
assist this focus and is often a key component of the therapeutic process.
However, it is important not to rush clients into positive
action if they are not yet ready for it. Sometimes they may
need to explore emotions and thoughts relating to their situation which they have been unable to express elsewhere.
Clinicians may simply allow the client to “sit with” negative
thoughts and feelings so that they can express them fully,
eventually enabling them to work through them and move
forward.
It is important to ensure that a traumatic history is not discussed too quickly by the client, which can potentially leave
them feeling vulnerable, as if they have given too much of
themselves at an early stage. A skilled clinician can slow
this process by exploring less traumatic aspects of the dialogue, relating it to the client’s current situation and asking
questions which enable the client to alter their perspective
where this is helpful. Clients can also be given coping techniques to use within and between sessions:
“Breathing techniques can help to calm intrusive thoughts.
I may ask the client to hold small stones or pebbles with
a smooth surface in each hand and describe to me what
they feel like. This brings the client back from intrusive
thoughts or memories into the present moment and into a
safe place with me in the room. The client can then use the
pebbles in the same way outside of therapy as a coping
mechanism.
“We sometimes talk about current self-care, so I will ask
the client what they do every day and how they take care
of themselves, for example whether they have a shower,
drink tea etc. By focusing on small practical elements of
their day, traumatized people can be assisted to manage
overwhelming feelings and focus on the ‘here and now’.”
Jackie Roberts,
HBF Psychotherapist
Maintaining focus upon the “here and now” in therapy also
helps to “contain” the session, so that the client is not inhib-
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